My wife and I have a great sex life and she can get me aroused anytime, anywhere. Sometimes during intercourse however, she stops and offers to help me to orgasm. On these occasions she’ll indulge my second favorite passion which is to masturbate while performing anilingus on her. Sometimes my orgasms this way are so intense I almost pass out, which she enjoys. My concern is, at which point does this turn into a fetish?
Is it supposed to concern you, if this turn into a fetish? My fetish for a woman’s earlobes causes me to ignore her tits and ass, which most women appreciate, since their nipples and undefined areas of their ass are sore, from abuse, that men rarely ever think of.