I wake up every day hoping that today I am going to learn something new and exciting.. I am a hopeless romantic and I have an insatiable appetite for all things Kinky.. my Gf and I have the most amazing life together, more than I ever thought that I deserve.. I hope that along our journey together we grow as people and partners into something that lasts..
The creativity of the lifestyle even if is only in my head I have never tired of and never will. I’m not obviously into the lifestyle in terms of dress or even physical actions but it is in my head all the time ! I love thinking about it !
You have the more realistic approach, since the lifestyle being in your head will give you a profoundly more powerful imagination about your BDSM limits, than other BDSMers are willing to admit to. I’ve discovered that I’m subconsciously broadening my fetish for a woman’s earlobes, to a limited bi-curiosity for a man’s earlobes, but on a strictly limited basis, so I maintain an awareness of conscientious rejection of any queer tendencies, even though I’ve learned more from the queer rainbow community, about the BDSM Lifestyle, than the straight community would dare try😎
I guess that might depend on who you are and what your limits are. Perhaps there does come a time when you can tire of the lifestyle, but maybe it's also a case of keeping it fresh and alive, much like a conventional 'vanilla' relationship and sex life. Interesting question though!