PD: Please tell us about yourself (where you were born, your goals and ambitions) 

MK: I was born in Edinburgh and moved across the country as a child. I was always interested in dancing and potentially pursuing a career in that as it was something that brought me joy and an activity I won a lot of awards and trophies for. I also loved to wind up the boys as I grew up- that was always a fun activity for me. It was my ambition to see what made them tick and how far I could test their limits.

 

PD: How did you get your start in BDSM?

MK: I was working within the sex industry at the time and came across a Mistress in London, I was scared of her at the time! I was almost overwhelmed, yet she allowed me into her inner circle and company. She explained what she did and she allowed me to stay for a session with a client and even get involved. She said that I was a natural after watching my first ball busting. I feel that's where it all started for me and I thiI naturally grew from there.

 

PD: Were you nervous going in?

MK: I was extremely nervous going in, it was a whole new world for me that I hadn't realized existed right within my grasp. I wanted to make sure that I was doing everything right and that my clients were enjoying themselves in a safe place. I worked with the Mistress I had befriended and began to work on sessions- allowing me to slowly build up my confidence, find my place and own style within the community. It was a real challenge that I grew to love and made my nerves steel.

 

PD: How long have you been a pro-domme and have you seen many changes within that time?

MK: I have been a professional Domme for about 12 years. I have seen many changes within the time, especially with the influx of social media and open minds of people. I have also noticed a change with the introduction of BDSM themed films and documentaries- that has brought a lot of people out of the woodwork and has made people naturally more curious. It has also allowed for easier contact and approach with new clients and the BDSM community as a whole.

 

PD: When did you first realize that you were a dominant female and when did that knowledge manifest itself?

MK: This certainly began when I came to England as a child. I found that I needed to become more dominant as many other kids used to bully me for being a redhead, introducing me to cruel games at times! I decided to retaliate and create my own games to get back at them and I found that I enjoyed them far too much, giving them as good as they gave. This definitely started my dominant streak in life. The first time I kicked a boy in the balls for pushing me off my bike, was a memorable event and I really enjoyed the feeling of power that it gave me- and I have been doing it ever since! 

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PD: Do you enjoy dominating male and female subs in the same way? Do you meet couples?

MK: I like to treat everyone the same when it comes to my sessions. I have no preference when it comes to them as I find that everyone is unique in their own body, everyone is adaptable to a session. I love working with all genders and arrangements, couples are certainly fun too and I meet with them often- to either educate partners who want to add kink into their relationship or simply for fun with them both.

 

PD: What is your favorite fetish?

MK: My favorite is ball busting, there is nothing more satisfying than watching a man crumble after attacking his manhood. It is very empowering for me. 

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PD: Why do you think people are drawn to BDSM?

MK: I think that it is something that people crave, where they can explore themselves in a controlled, safe environment and step out of their everyday comfort zones. It also gives them the opportunity to explore new aspects of themselves, indulging in a world that they might have not allowed themselves to be part of. I think that BDSM also allows clients to get more involved in a community of like minded individuals and create lifelong friendships. It can almost confirm a person's sanity, realizing that their interests are shared by others.. 

 

PD: Is there anything that you haven't done within the BDSM world that you wish to?

MK: I can't say that there is, as I have really made sure to try it all. I have been in the industry for so long and have worked with so many others- that it is almost impossible not to try everything. 

 

PD: Do you consider yourself as being a Dominatrix in all aspects of your life or do you separate this from a more ‘vanilla’ life?

MK: I like to keep my Pro-Domme life and my 'vanilla' life separate. I like to have the time to myself so that I am not constantly in a 'work' headspace. Saying that I dove love attending to bdsm social events.. it’s great fun meet likeminded people in a safe environment , I feel if it was a 24/7 role it would be almost overpowering and I would perhaps lose myself in it? I really value having my own time because it is important to make sure that I take care of myself and keep myself in a healthy mind set.

 

PD: What do you like to do in your spare time?

MK: I like to socialize with my friends, I really value my time with them. I also love my music and going to gatherings with others. I just love to dance and jump around! I am still very much involved with my raving days!

 

PD: If you were not doing this, what other career would you have?

MK: I actually think that I would be in the Army now that I think about it? I enjoy the idea of the community and the travel aspect. I have family that have been in the army and have always respected them for that. Perhaps the regimented role/lifestyle is why I excel in activities such as Corporal Punishment?

 

PD: Do you feel a sense of pride about what you do?

MK: I definitely do, I like doing things in a specific way to make sure that things go exactly as I want them to, it is the Dominatrix in me who strives for control. But I take more pride in helping my submissives along their journey, yes I expect a certain etiquette, seeing them evolve as people within the scene and their personal lives. I take great pride in investing my time and experience in others so that they can truly blossom, it's something that I have always loved being a part of. It can be extremely rewarding. 

 

PD: What is your personal motivation to work as a Dominatrix?

MK: My motivation is that I simply love working on domination and humiliation, I love having the power over others and being able to put people in their place. I adore how it makes me feel and it motivates me more when I know that I am giving someone what they need at that moment. I know that BDSM can be a much needed release for clients with chaotic lives who need a moment to step back and relax. 

 

PD: Anything else that you would like to mention?

MK: I just want people to know that I'm fiery, feisty , sassy and I'm down to Earth. But don't ever underestimate me , I may smile and giggle with you but I’m still your boss 

 

Mistress Kirsty