I’m new to this whole thing and I am more drawn to the idea of being a Dominant, but I just don’t know what to do or what desires I really have. How can I pull stuff together and figure what I need to do or like? I hope you can help.
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Sounds very interesting if you want to try out anything on maybe most happy to help
In order to become a good top (dominant)... You need to know what your bottom (submissive) is feeling... Starting out as a bottom, will make you a better top in the long run... And for some of us rare unicorns... You can enjoy the pleasures of being a Switch...One who enjoys playing both top and bottom, and can switch at will...Ha Ha Ha...I personally love to top from the bottom 🤣🤣😂🙃😁😉
Hi tammy I totally agree that I am a switch as well so I can buy and do what you want to me and I have a good submissive
Hi Nistress tell me I would love to be your subs today let me know if impossible I am a very kinky blind submissive I do quick as well I like top and bottom
I'm with you Tammy! Sex is all about pleasing your partner. So is dominance. Do whatever turns your significant other on. If you're not sure what to say, then ask questions and proceed accordingly. You can be respectful, even polite, and still proceed in a calm, confident way.
It is quite enjoyable to dominate in this sort of way. Perhaps you might wish to begin by asking, "Have you ever been tied?" Or, "Would you like to be tied, then?" Or, "Would you like your hands tied behind you?" By asking questions, your partner will likewise grow confident in you, knowing that you wish to lead to a state of bliss and would never do anything to cause real harm.