What happens during our scenes is magical and mystical.
There is a certain moment, typically close to the climax, when we lose our humanity per sé, and we descend into our pure animal natures, growling and howling as we cum together while my cock swells and I pump my load into her ass.
By the time we get there, she has been flogged hundreds of times, she has been fucked, face fucked and had experienced squirting orgasms with my mouth on her pussy, she has been caned and ass fucked.
The anal we have is unreal. It’s HOT beyond words.
To be fair, it did not quite start out that way. She needed to be trained to be my ass whore.
When we were courting, I told her that I was seeking a submissive who was a three-hole whore to serve as my collared slut. While she was deeply committed to being claimed by me, she was at first, a little reluctant to engage in anal sex. She had history. Her ex had shoved hard didoes in her ass without lube and she suffered torn tissue that left her very weary about “serving as my ass whore.” So, what did it take to create her anal experience where she now prepares herself daily for me, and is excited about being fucked in the ass because she enjoys it immensely?
Anal training the way we practiced it, led our relationship to include a total ass-centric dynamic. The first thing I told her is that she needed to be an ass-to-mouth girl. What this led to was her being fastidious about cleaning her ass before play. In addition to eating a clean diet with lots of soluble fiber, she uses a water-based douche after taking a emptying before play, making sure to flush with water a couple times, and she wipes carefully to clean the exterior. Neither her nor I are into scat.
During play I have three important words to share that will make ass play way more fun for all concerned. LUBE – LUBE – LUBE! Did I say we use lots of lube? YES! The more the merrier. The ass does not make lube. None. None at all. In addition, I put lube on my cock and her external sphincter. My slut injects a squirt of lube into her ass before we play and I always make sure to lube my cock up before I press my cock into her ass. I do that every time. I also keep a bottle of lube handy and if it feels like it needs it, I lube up again and again till her ass is cock friendly. For example, I like to cane her and fuck her ass between cane strokes. I lube my cock every time I do this before I cane her so that I can cane her and fuck her ass without delay.
The nerve endings of the anus are numerous. The high concentration of nerve endings makes the anus an erogenous zone. Getting technical, the pudendal nerve is the same nerve that innervates both the clitoris and the penis…need I say more? Because of the sensitivity of the anal nerves, I usually lube my cock and surf her ass making her crazy. I start by slowly pressing my fat cock into her ass, allowing her time to stretch out in order to accept me so that she will tolerate the vigorous pounding to come. Perhaps it’s the shape of my hard cock, or its thickness or both, but with enough lube, my slut has squirting orgasms when I fuck her ass. My cock somehow stimulates her g-spot when I am fucking her ass. It’s glorious. Perhaps is the angle of entry. I fuck her ass when she is on her knees on our “fuck chair”, so perhaps that’s why.
So, to remind you, lube, lots of lube and more lube makes ass sex great. If you don’t use lube or if you don’t use enough lube you risk causing anal sphincter lacerations or even rectal or sigmoid colon perforation which is a serious injury and may possibly result in death. Seriously. Same goes for anal stretching or anal fisting, which some people like, but those activities can also result in permanent damage due to deliberate over stretching of the anal and rectal tissue. Save those activities for the vagina, that tissue is elastic and doesn’t mind being stretched.
Now it turns out I am an anal whore too. I LOVE my ass stimulated. Nothing hotter than a hot wet tongue on my ass. Those nerve endings feel so great when tongued. When my slut is sucking my cock she often enhances the stimulus by pulling on my balls and fingering my ass. When she is feeling frisky, she slips a finger into my ass and strokes, taps, squeezes and massages my prostate. I have to say that the experience of prostate stimulation while my cock is down her throat has produced stronger and harder orgasms that last longer, come from deeper and are more intense than ever leaving her struggling to keep up with the flow and gasping for air.
There is a massive medical benefit that extends beyond the simple pleasure of prostate massage for prostate health. Now it is quite possible for some men to achieve orgasm with prostate massage alone. It’s also true that with one or ideally two fingers, the person doing the prostate massage can apply the pressure in just the right way. To create the experience of a prostate orgasm. Some describe it as being similar to a female G-sport orgasm. It’s a deeper and stronger orgasm than a penile only orgasm. Personally, I highly recommend it. The same issues as those for female anal penetration apply. LOTS OF LUBE. And then MORE LUBE. It’s also a good idea to go slow and to start small and gradually use a thicker finger or a second finger. You can also massage part of the prostate at the same time as you stimulate the prostate through the anterior wall of the rectum by externally pressing on the taint or by using a vibrator there.
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It’s not uncommon in men to play with the prostate during long term denial play. So called milking of the prostate. In this case, the dominant partner milks the prostate of the long-term denial submissive to relieve them of ejaculate without bringing them to arousal.
Not to be outdone, even Motor Bunny is getting on the prostate action with a prostate massage dildo they call the Premium Silicone Keister Bunny Prostate Massager Attachment, that allows a man to enjoy the 7,000 RPM and 0.8 HP motor stimulating his prostate while riding the toy. The prostate is also at play in Sounding when combined with electrical stimulation through the anus, the Sounding causes the prostate to be dramatically stimulated to great effect. A person skilled in Sounding should be the person managing this sort of anal play.
The secret to ass play is to be aware that there are two sphincters to negotiate. First the anus passes through the pelvic floor, which is surrounded by the pelvic sling, the muscles of the pelvic floor. This is the external sphincter – your butt hole, then inside, there is a second sphincter or the internal anal sphincter. These are muscles. You can squeeze your butt to feel them contract. Its not a bad idea to squeeze them hard by bearing down, and then relax just before anal penetration, because after a maximum contraction, the muscles maximally relax, and entry is easier.
I like to think of it like this. The prostate is one of three sex organs men have. We have balls, a cock and a prostate. Ass play in men stimulates the anus and the prostate at the same time and its literally one third of a man’s sex organs. Do not ignore it. In women, there is the pussy, including the inner and outer labia, the clitoris and the G-spot and the anus. Do not ignore all those erogenous anal nerves around the anus.
So, in summary, have anal sex. Lots of it. Use lube … lots of it. Be aware that sodomy is still on the books as illegal in several states in the USA (even though the law is technically unenforceable). If you want your orgasms to be longer, stronger and deeper and more intense as a man, and if my slut is representative, her orgasms are also longer, stronger and deeper too, then incorporate ass play into your sex life.
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